After 10 years, it’s time to reduce Facebook sharing even more
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The following status update was posted on my Facebook wall to some of my friends earlier tonight, though of course the links have been added here.
I realize thereās some irony in posting this on Facebook.
Some of you will have noticed that I havenāt been updating as frequently. Thatās in line with global trends: personal sharing was down 25 per cent year on year between 2015 and 2016, and 29 per cent between 2016 and 2017. After 10 years on Facebook, sometimes I feel Iāve shared enough.
Even on my own blog, I havenāt done as much in-depth on branding, because my theories and beliefs havenāt markedly changed.
None of ours do too much. I may have changed a handful of minds through discussions Iāve had here, and on occasion youāve changed my mind. Iāve seen how some of you have terrible arguments, and how brilliant others are. But overall, has the past decade of exchanges really been worth that much? Some of you here are on the left of politics, and some of you on the right. I hope through dialogue you all wound up with a mutual understanding of one another. I have seen some of you come to a very healthy respect on this wall, and that was worth it. But I wonder if it is my job to be āhosting debatesā. Those debates simply serve to underline that all my friends are decent people, and Iāve made good choices over the last decade on who gets to read this wall in full. None of it has changed what I thought of you, unless in those very rare examples youāve shown yourself to be totally incapable of rational thought (and youāve probably left in a huff anyway). It shows Iām open-minded enough to have friends from all over the world of all political persuasions, faiths, beliefs, sexual orientations, gender identities, educational levels, and socioeconomic grouping, because none of that ultimately says whether you are a decent human being or not. At the end of the day, that is the only real measure.
If youāre reading this, then we know each other personally, and you know where this is heading. Youāll find me increasingly more at Mastodon, Hubzilla, Blogcozy, Instagram (I know, itās owned by Facebook) and my own blog. We donāt exactly need this forum to be messaging and debating. I will continue to frequent some groups and look after some pages, including my public page here on Facebook.
And of course Iāll continue writing, but not on a site that feeds malware to people (Facebook has bragged about this officially), tracks your preferences after opting out, tolerates sexual harassment, keeps kiddie porn and pornography online even after reports are filed, and has an absolutely appalling record of removing bots and spammers. These are all a matter of record.
If I mess up, I trust you, as my friends, to contact me through other means and to tell me Iāve been a dick. If you agree or disagree with viewpoints, there are blog comments or other means of voicing that, or, as some of you have done on Facebook (because you, too, have probably realized the futility of engaging in comments), you can send me a message. Heck, you could even pick up the phone. And if you want to congratulate me, well, that should be easy.
Of course itās not a complete farewell. As long as this account stays openāand Facebook wonāt let you manage pages without oneāthen the odd update will still wind up on this wall. I may feel strongly enough about something that it demands sharing. But, 10 years later, there are better places to be having conversations, especially as social media democratizes and users demand that they have control over their identities and how to use them.
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come on Jack
The real reason is old age!
From an even older man!
Lovely hearing from you, Hugh!
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